Originally Posted by
choublak 
Am I the only one who doesn't like this comment?
It doesn’t matter if I like the comment or not. I look to see if there is any truth to it.
As much as I pointed fingers at my X, I can now see areas where I contributed to the marriage falling apart. Alcohol, overeating, financial irresponsibility, constant belittling and affairs are all her problem. Nevertheless, what was my part . . . it started with our last year together with me sleeping on the couch every night.