Well, he's not your HS sweetheart anymore. He's an addict and the sooner you cut the cord the better. You must keep yourself safe. You must think of yourself. You must think of your future. In Alanon there are people of all ages and with all different stories, but the funny thing is......the stories really are the same, just differences of names. The people in the rooms have been where you are. Don't dismiss them because they look different from you. What is in their hearts is the same. They can help you....GO BACK.