Just my humble opinion,
A couple years ago my eldest daughter confided in me, about some dumb financial scheme/scam,/ to good to be true opportunity....... her hubby was entertaining investing in. Well, ever since she shared that with me, I have not been able to look at him the same. I see him in quite an unfavorable light these days. Perhaps I finally got a glimpse of "the real him" and I do not think very highly of him.
Seems both my daughter and him have moved on and forgot about this, but I still remember. Had she not shared this with me, I never would have known, BUT she did. AND I cannot just Forget.......She shared something with me, and it's negatively reflective of his character.
So I smile, and nod, and pretend nothing is wrong, but I am sitting back just waiting for the other shoe to drop.....
All I can offer, careful what you share, and sometimes when we share too much, it's like inviting a third party into the marriage.......