Originally Posted by
justhadenough 
I'm sorry,I did not mean to upset you. Just re-read my comment and it did sound harsher than I meant it to-damned internet!(Well,me typing too quickly)
I could have written your post years ago before I just drank at home -we all understand
Have you discussed your drinking with her?
No apologies necessary, didn't mean my post to come off that way either! I have discussed it with her but it is usually in the context of broader discussion around irresponsibility, selfishness, and thoughtlessness. I've said "I know what needs to happen for this to stop, and I apologize that you have to deal with that too." She says she doesn't understand why I can't just stop when I need to stop. I think she wants me to try and find a solution that will allow me to still drink socially, I am to the point where I don't think that is an option anymore. Thanks again, good to actually be fully honest with people who understand.