FF... He has not returned the favor. It has been to this point if I stay sober he does. If I weaken he drinks. That's not good. So I stopped looking to him for anything related to being sober. That's why I look here, my sponsor, and my meetings to do that for me. If and when he comes around he needs to do his own work. Maybe in a few months when he has to face things himself he will see what needs to be done. I will be there to encourage but not much else.
Thanks again everyone. Another sober evening after a very long and stressful workday....
And I don't want to drink! Well I want to but I don't do that any more. So I went for ice cream again!