" I'm so upset that he is going to go back on his promise to not drink."
His promises and words mean nothing...zero...he is not in a recovery program, IF he is not
drinking yet, mostly likely he will begin again...soon...very soon.
You need to work on you, get to some meetings, read Codependent No More, read all the
stickeys on the top of all the Family & Friends section, knowledge is power and you need to
understand the truth about addiction and be prepared to do what is necessary to protect yourself from this horrible disease,one that has no cure.