Congrats on your sober time. I'm so happy it is going well for you so far.
I will have 14 1/2 years of sobriety, and it feels like the norm. I don't know when it changed from being something I didn't do (not drinking) to just my normal life, but it was in the first few years. I struggled with cravings for awhile, so it didn't feel normal not to drink until those cravings were finally lifted. Now I rarely even notice if someone is drinking. Nor do I desire it
Every now and again there is a fleeting thought, but that is all it is. Fleeting, and I don't give it any more thought. I have never lost that fear of what alcohol did to me. I never want to feel that way again.
So the answer is yes, it just becomes normal not to drink. It doesn't require much thought
"The mind is its own place; it can make a hell of heaven
or a heaven of hell" Milton