Gracey,
I have those threatening feelings everytime my AH's brother calls. His brother is also an alcoholic. The only time his brother calls or sees him is when he wants someone to go get drunk with. The AH will drop everything to run and meet him. His brother treats him like crap. The brother has told me that my AH is jealous of him. He has also told other people the same thing. The AH knows this and says he can't stand his brother but when he calls, off he goes... They were suppose to meet at a local bar to discuss their Mother's health problems.(haven't met yet) I'm sure she would be proud of this... We have to get over these threatening feelings so we can move on with our life..