Old 10-14-2012, 05:28 AM
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Faithlove
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Your daughter is an adult. She sounds perfectly capable of making her own decisions.

One of her decisions was asking you to leave her home until you could behave better.

You're making it very stressful on her. You're forcing her to referee you and her husband. Whether he is a recovering addict or not, it is apparent that you do t like him. However, I think it would benefit you to exercise your manners and learn self-control. You're not helping your daughter by constantly creating strife. You're probably driving her away.

If you truly believe he is likely to relapse soon, begin mending your relationship with her now. That includes not publically embarrassing her and her husband. Be supportive of her and kind to him. Let her trust that you have her best interest at heart.

As far as her being too good or too pretty for her husband; she's not a prize to be won. Let her make her own love life decisions.
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