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Old 11-02-2004, 07:51 AM
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gelfling
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Join Date: Sep 2004
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I felt the same way for so long. That a marriage or relationship was also "1". You know, the old ball and chain bit. But in the process, we smothered each other. He now does his thing if he wants, I do my meetings and run during the day if I feel like. If I wasn't such a chicken to drive in snow at night, I would take classes of some sort. This is something I need to work on. I love art and would love to take art classes. HHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, got to focus on what's really holding me back on this one.

It was hard to do because I grew up with my grandparents and they didn't do anything separate. And they definitely should have.

Don't apologize to anyone for what's happened to you in the past. It wasn't your fault. Just look to yourself and find a solution that will help you grow and become an independent individual. It feels good.

Hugs, Kathy
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