Originally Posted by lillamy

Yup. Doesn't sound like a dying man to me. Faced with death, people tend to acquire a bit of humility. Desire to make things right. All I hear is me, me, me, I'm the victim, me, me, me.

Oh, and the living will? Where I live, every time I go in to the hospital (like for a blood test or a mammogram), I get the question "Do you have a living will?" and when I say no, they follow up with, "Here is some information about how you create one. This is something we believe everyone should have, because if you need critical care, this will make it easier on your family to know what you wanted while you were able to make decisions."

And I haven't been close to dying any of those times.