Keep going to therapy and if you don't already go to Alanon. If you can, get hold of a series of books called Getting Them Sober.
It's probably not his bottom.
Originally Posted by
caligirl71 
Hi,
Here I am back again and this time, like all of you said, my life is much worse. My AH was charged with a DUI over the weekend. We were supposed to go camping but when he came home he was wasted so I chose to stay home and asked him not to go in his condition. He called me names and drove away..2 hours later I received a call from the police stating they had arrested him. He spent the night in jail and came home the next day. He is saying he is sorry and will stop drinking now. I don't believe him. Should I believe him? I don't know what to do. It seems he is more concerned about losing his job and license than his family. Could this be his "rock bottom"? I told him if he picks up another drink ever again I will divoce him. So what do you all think? Any opinions or advice. I am in therapy now and know I can not live any more with a drunk...