I live in a neighboring state with similar laws.
Our divorce was simple w/out kids involved. We brought it all to a lawyer and divided it out how we saw best. For example I was the only one who had a significant amount of money in a retirement fund (because his family is wealthy). We kept our separate retirements and did the house as I bought it out.
The legal end of the divorce was fairly easy for me and it was fast and straightforward. I was a hot mess emotionally however and had to learn how to keep those two pieces separate for a time.