Originally Posted by
kmangel 
I know you want your daughter to embrace recovery. It must be her choice to do so. Don't make phone calls for her. You've made suggestions to her. Does she really want your suggestions--or anyone else's advice? Let her do the work of getting help. Until she puts forth the effort, she is not ready.
Since I haven't heard anything from her since yesterday, I am starting to accept that my involvement isn't doing any of us any good. I am angry and worried that she hasn't responded to my texts, and I doubt seriously that she is even thinking about it. It is pretty clear to me now that I have to pull back.
My concern now is for my little granddaughter and how much to tell my former son-in-law, who has custody of her. I haven't told him about the recent hospitalization, but since my daughter is NEVER allowed to see my granddaughter without supervision, I don't feel like she is in danger. I allowed myself to be drawn in to the addictive behavior when I agreed not to tell him about this episode (provided she gets treatment). Never again. I have a lot of work to do, too.