My wife drinks daily qwerrt. I try and use it as a motivation. she doesn't accept it as a fact that she has a problem with alcohol, and every evening when she opens the first beer I look at her and think, when I was drinking that was me. Everyone looked at me drinking daily and knew, but I was oblivious.
It is a terrible thing to say about my wife, but being 15 days sober it kind of disgusts me to watch her drink every day, and that gives me additional resolve to not go back to it.