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Old 10-31-2004, 10:52 AM
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Lorelai
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Jess -
I get into a lot of trouble with expectations of others. Not really expectations of what a particular person should do but expectations of how a person playing a particular role in my life should behave - like a spouse.

I realized that the person I was disappointed in was me. I had expectations of how I should behave, what I should tolerate, etc. I wasn't fulfilling my own expectations of myself.

My happiness doesn't really come from gifts or cakes anyway. It comes from the acknowledgement that I am important and I am a fantastic person who is loved.

Since I know I am a fantastic person and I know that I deserve to to be loved, I don't need anybody else to confirm that for me. It's nice but not necessary.

You have a great time on your birthday with your daughter.
I think you're a fantastic person and I know she does too.
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