Originally Posted by
Florence 
IME, this is the acceptance part of recovery. It took me years to accept that my co-parent was not interested in assisting my son at anything, or assisting me in any way, or cooperating for anyone's best interest but his own. Whatever is going on in his mind, I had to let go of it. We communicate much more peacefully when I expect NOTHING from him and when I am not bitter about the Nothing I get.
I had to let go of the fantasy.
Wow Florence - this is what I am trying to do a the moment as my co-parent is totally useless. I have allowed myself to get annoyed that I have to "carry the can all alone"...but its getting easier to accept that this is the wasy it is going to be