Just cause he doesnt want to face reality and use the words that he is an alcoholic and still wants to compare himself to others is his choice not yours.
I have been in the food and beverage business for over 20 years. And it is chalk full of alkies and addicts.. I am one of them..
I am an alcoholic , I can not drink like a normal person.
I drink to much, to often , for to long.. I dont care what you want to call it. It is what it is..
Keep going to those meetings, get a sponsor and work the steps, get a home group...
Bring the body and the mind will follow. And you can just be an example to all.(including your friend)..
It sounds to me that your doing great..