Add me to that list! I am in the same boat. I am in the mourning stages of "what could of been". I am feeling very rejected. In any event, I seen a quote on here the other day that helps me everyday, it said, "You must let go of the life you imagined to have the life that is waiting for you."
I started an online al-anon class this evening and find there are soo many people going through this same cycle