I go along with another time, maybe things will be more fair... for now I take it one day at a time, or a second at a time and I look for any bargain, I can find. AND Definetly not in any man. I don't know how old you are, but I read on the net someplace... "That if you are about 50 , forget about finding a decent man..." I'm (past menopause, going into pause- o-men) I'm still with my AB but if that day would come where someone ask me for a date I think my answer would be "I'm reformed gay" As for AB, he has quit drinking (or cut down drastically), no money, also his health is getting bad...