Dear Bobby, I sooo remember the anger and "unfairness" of it all. I think this is the hardest emotion for the significant other to face.
It is ok to be angry---and even necessary to be aware of your emotions and feel them. Vent away about it!!!!!
The ultimate antidote to this anger is to focus full-time on yourself (and kids). You have been wounded and your own self-esteem and welfare need attention.
I am glad that you came here to post and share. Hang around!!!
I can't give you a chip, but please accept this little cartoon as my salute to your bravery
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dandylion