Originally Posted by
fhl41 
No contact for me got me off the crazy train, AND it was amazing but i saw him for what he really was because he met someone 1.5 weeks later, pretty eye opening. Heart breaking too though.
I am still amazed at how quickly they can move on.
I needed distance to get a grip on myself because I kept going back for more abuse and rejection. No contact is the ONLY answer for me to (dare I say it?) break my addiction to him...my thinking is clearer, he is fading into the distance, I accept the reality instead of living in the land of potential, I accept that his alcoholism is a deal breaker for any healthy relationship...so no contact has brought me peace and resolution.
Let him go mess with other womens' minds (God help them)
. I'm off the crazy train, too.