Well my wife was out of town and she found out when I told here the minute she came home. A friend of mine who is a detective here picked her up and was present when I told her. I felt he could offer some inside advice to both of us upon her receiving the news. So...tomorrow I meet with my lawyer and go over the whole scenario and then I'll see from there. Court date is Friday and I cannot drive until I can hopefully arrange some work privileges then. I am going to voluntarily offer to attend a three day "drunk school" before my court date and will probably attend AA meetings again. I think I now realize that it needs to be part of my life to attend these meetings instead of just going through the motions until things feel back to normal. That's my temporary plan so far. I didn't know how my wife would react but she has been nothing but completely supportive. Obviously shes not happy but I think she sees that maybe this incident will work better for the both of us in the long run.