I am about your age raybro... There are a lot of fine, motivated, eloquent and smart people here on SR and I believe you are in for a little adjustment in your preconceptions regarding online forums...
You may find that the program of AA has a plan for you that won't unravel if you work it. There are also other plans which I don't know much about which may also help. Point is, getting recovered is not always as simple as putting the cup down... You can do it but be prepared to do some work. Are you willing?