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Old 09-12-2012, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by LaTeeDa View Post
It sounds to me like, since you have been unable to change him, you are looking for a therapist who can. Good luck with that.

Seems he's looking for the same thing.....(therapist who can change you.)

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It definitely seems like you're both trying to "fix" each other, which won't work out well. He's an A, plain and simple. The only person who can fix an A is the A themselves, and trying to force it on them isn't going to get you much more than a heaping pile of contempt (which you seem to have in spades already). You can't change him, and a therapist sure as heck can't. He has to want to change himself, and he's screaming at you loud and clear that he doesn't want to. At the end of this, all you're probably going to have is two people who are still trying to fix each other, with neither one willing to claim defeat over trying to CONTROL ANOTHER PERSON.
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