Originally Posted by
lizatola I am willing to put in effort to get myself healthy and, in doing so, I'm hoping to gain a healthy marriage,too. Maybe I'm living in fantasy land again, but I still believe this can be fixed.
If you truly believe this, then why the sarcasm at your husband's expense? And I ask this nicely, not as a jab at you, but to point out another dichotomy in your statements. Its easy to
say all the right words, but the actions are speaking a different story...
My therapist pointed out to me once that although I was saying I wanted to try to make my marriage work, I was shaking my head no at the same time.