Originally Posted by
lizatola 
He admits to having issues, but is so overwhelmed by them that he doesn't even want to start tackling them. It just appears that he wants me to go back to being a doormat and his idea of change is; let's see if the therapist can change my wife back?
Originally Posted by
lizatola I ask myself daily if I can live with him as he is and I still don't feel 100% in either direction at this point. Hence the reason that I am willing to give the marriage counseling a try.
You do see the dichotomy here, right? He's not willing to work on his issues, but you are willing to give (yet another) marriage counselor a try? Why? So you can become even more frustrated?
L