Originally Posted by
Hailey13 
To answer a question that seems to be arising a lot (and at the risk of sounding like a selfish b****) No, I cannot accept him and take him 100% for what he is now. I am not a perfectionist, but the negative attributes (although there are a lot of positive ones too) are too much for me to handle.
Drawing the line between acceptable and unacceptable demonstrates emotional maturity. There is nothing selfish about this.