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Old 09-08-2012, 06:58 AM
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Titanic
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Originally Posted by suki44883 View Post
It is just a very small glimpse of what life is like with an addict. There is always the possibility of relapse. They can disappear with no notice, come back with no notice, treat you like crap, then turn around and tell you how much they love you.
Good news is that you missed out on gallons of the usual lying, manipulation, excuses & other "isms" that go in their concoctions. Consider yourself lucky that you don't have to unpeel an onion-full of layers of blame as to why he left you!

Originally Posted by suki44883 View Post
You are much, MUCH better off to just let this one go. No need to invest any more time in someone who would do this so early in the relationship.
You can say that again!!! And, if he had been following his program for his own sake, he would have heeded the "no new romantic or sexual relationships in the first year" guideline! Relapse chances are high when the A doesn't follow the program but does the A's own one.

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