Originally Posted by
lizatola 
I have to tell you all that I had a very peaceful feeling come over me ..... I tuned them out and felt this peace and I started getting teary eyed and I realized that I need to get out
There another common saying around here, the three As
Awareness
Acceptance
Action
Sounds to me like you're where I was when I hit the indifference phase. Almost like giving up the fight and accepting that
it is what it is. At this point I started fighting for something else, a battle I
could win, something worth saving. My own sanity. After all, I had my own kids I had to keep it together for. They deserved much more form me than what scraps were left.