What I see and hear is an exact replication of my marriage. The longer we stayed entrenched in our dance... The more my XAH and I shredded each other to pieces. Everyone said we needed to take 10 steps back... But each of our respective diseases jut kept pulling us closer.
The last few months were awful. I shuddered when I think of the anger and awful sarcastic treatment we gave each other... With our poor children sitting in front row seats. But we were each so entrenched in our desire to be right and win... That neither could see how bad the family was losing.
A powere struggle ceases being a power struggle when one person drops the rope.