Yeah... it's crazy how crazy we can get, too... and how great it is to realize we're not anymore!
While I was still married to AXH, I would get attracted to other men that I in my current state of recovery wouldn't even begin to consider thinking of touching with a ten-foot pole. Men who needed HELP.
Now, as someone here said, when I meet a man who needs help, I call the Coast Guard. And then I run like hell.