Thank You All. He is in deep denial mode. He has always been a "weekend/holiday/vacation" drinker. A couple of times he tried to "cut back" when we got into some pretty heavy duty arguments about it. He even went to a couple of AA meetings but thought they were "not for him". I think the longest he has gone without a drink is a month-just so he could prove to himself he could do it. Now he just says he wants to keep drinking. I still hope for sobriety or him but I think our journey together is over. We have been separated for 2 years and recently he asked for a divorce. I am living my own life, going to Al ANon and we have very limited contact. I am getting out of his way-for both our goods.