I have a question because this line irked me:
Finally if you think switching counselors might help I'm on board. I think there are other issues that you feel might be helpful to get on the table but Jason is now like a dog with a bone and doesn't appear to be flexible Either way let me know what you'd like to do.
Have you suggested switching counselors?
This is totally the tone and MO my AXH would use with me when he wanted to
appear to be open to me making decisions while, at the same time, telling me exactly what decision he wanted me to make ("change counselors, because Jason is focused on my alcoholism and that's not the REAL problem here, that's just what YOU and JASON think the problem is").
Me? I wouldn't trust a single word. I would wait for action.