Originally Posted by
Hypatia 
Frankly, I am surprised that any reputable counsellor would take on the job of saving a marriage. That isn't what counselling is all about.
I don't know how therapy can save a marriage. That's right up there with expecting therapy to to cure alcoholism, addiction or codependency.
Best case, a therapist can teach highly motivated people how to communicate, resolve their own conflicts and rebuild trust.