with HIS recovery...i dont think he is there YET....I really dont think how HONEST and HUMBLE he really needs to be...IMO
as for your recovery...that is awesome, you know what you can handle and not handle..and your boundaries...
personally? i think you shocked him when he asked to move back home.... I think that was a TEST see how far YOU have become...( not him, because lets face it, the 1st year is to be the toughest)