It is traumatic. Even when they're not calling you names, it can be traumatic. I remember hearing the "you're going to drive me into the ground and we need to stay away from each other and move on so I can pull my life together". I for a second believed I was the crazy one. Now I know it was for him to sustain his addiction. He never wanted me around to ruin that, to ruin the high or to tell his family. Let me know how your lifes gets turned back together pal. Last I heard he was still addicted to Vicodin, Xanax and Adderall, oh and drinking. . . oh and probably still selling drugs, eventhough he's lost his drivers license to two DWIs and drug possession charges a few years ago.
Can someone please remind me what I saw in this person? sorry feel like venting today.