I just came back online to write something in this thread. I want to apologize for asking that question. Thank you for clarifying the rape comment. I think that threw me for a loop (I too was sexually molested at 7 by my brother's best friend). So anyways, I was coming back to apologize for asking that...it's none of my business. You and I have a lot of parallel's. Thank you for taking the time to reply to my rude question. xo, Jody