Originally Posted by
lizatola 
I just want to know where our money is going.
I tried bringing it up in a round about way and he denied opening up any kind of credit cards and got on my case about it and said, "You're the one with the secret credit card."
Yes, you have a right to know where the money is going.
Also, the fact that he denied AND deflected it?!...wow, I'd definitely be all over this and not bury my head in the sand about it.