Originally Posted by
sweetteewalls 
I started the thread with the intention of trying to understand how it is that the As can leave us so easily. Now I realize, it doesn't matter why, just that he did. I am learning more and more every day.
Wow, sweettee this is progress! And hopefully this thought will lead you into less sadness and more anger that he abandoned you. And that will lead to better choices for you and your child.
You're right, it doesn't matter why. But now you know the kind of man you are dealing with, a man of no integrity, and that he did you a favor by leaving, as much as it hurts. Let him go; he's not meant to be in your life long term anyway.