Originally Posted by
SadinNJ 
Is it ever possible to have them back?
No I don't think so. For this to happen they would have to look at themself. Not possible, they will still want to blame you for everything. If you ever went back it would be going back to the same bs as before. It is a rare rare person that can look at themselve and realize what they did wrong after they blamed everyone in the world for their own faults.
They will hate you, and call you Ms Perfect. They,if, they ever came back would no longer be able to look you in the face.
JMHO.