I very, very rarely cry. I hate to cry. I hate crying in front of other people; so if I do cry, it's usually at bedtime. But, I hate the way I feel the next morning, my eyes burn, they are puffy, my sinuses get all congested.
I try and keep it in, even if I'm on the verge of tears. Usually I'm successful.
I did cry a few times out of anger when axbf was here.
I am a ACOA. I have only seen my mom cry a few times. It actually kind of scares me when she does for some reason. I guess I should clarify, my mom wasn't the A, my dad was.