I feel depressed also. The past 5 days I felt inspired, motivated and believed I am making a stand to love myself and get out from under his control. Then last night he told me he has been so happy the past few days doing things without me and not having to ANSWER to me. He said he no longer loved me. This morning I feel sick to my stomach, down right immobolized with depression and he is up, showered and just went somewhere happy as a lark. It is so much easier to leave the status quo and just feel lonely then to embark on a new life and feel depressed but if I can just take it one day at a time and gets lots of support I believe I will be happier in the long run. Its just so hard sp I know where you are coming from. I guess we need to encourage each other.