It Made Me Cry
I just now read this, and even being a guy, it brought tears to my eyes. I can't imagine in my wildest imaginations, that anything like this would happen to anyone. I tried to imagine someone holding my son hostage like that - I don't think I would have handled it as well as you did.
I have no advice or suggestions to offer, just hope and prays for you and your daughter's safety.
Take care of yourself.
Blessings