Originally Posted by
fourmaggie *How do you stop caring and move on?* was the question...
why do you feel you need to STOP caring?...you can stop alot of things but feelings need to be GRIEVED and there is a process...until you are aware that you need to greive him and all those resentments, will only and only will you be able to move on...
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I guess I just feel it would be easier to move on if I didn't care so much about him. I know, in the end, that alcohol comes first for him and he really doesn't value our marriage or kids much anymore. I just kept thinking that he would wake up and realize what he was missing out on but I need to stop dreaming....