Originally Posted by
ZiggyB 
It sounds like we have been living in a parallel universe.... I had the same realization also, 3 years of a roller coaster of scary emotions & he will never change. My guy actually got worse instead of better. Somehow finally accepting he will never change has been the key to letting go...
ONE DAY AT A TIME!!!
Letting go is extremely hard because you care and because you love. Duh! We are humans!
With time (and lots of patience) and support, everything heals.
Trust me, this is VERY hard. I haven't spoken to him for almost a week. The longest we have ever been. I go back and forth on many things, but bottom line, I can't do anything for him. He has to.
I just began this grieving process...This is just the beginning... How long was it for you?