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Old 08-08-2012, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted by NYCDoglvr View Post
Not wanting to have sex with someone isn't part of the disease but how he handles it is .... it's your fault!
Wow, really? I disagree wholeheartedly with this. It is not her fault that her husband is alcoholic and therefore behaves like an alcoholic.

I know for a fact that when I was actively drinking I wanted nothing to do with my boyfriend intimately. It was time I could have been spending getting drunk instead. That is how we think about things as alcohlics. Anything that gets in the way of drinking has to go.

To the original poster, it is NOT your fault, and you should not blame yourself one bit.
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