Hi Sweet
I’m so sorry you are being subjected to this crap. Sounds like your ExAH is a nasty piece of work. What a totally unnecessary and pointless rant when he was already supposed to be picking your poor daughter up anyway.
I don’t have much advice, and I don’t know all your circumstances, but I’m wondering if there are any other people in your life that can help you out? Your ex either wants to be involved in his daughter’s life or he doesn’t. If, as he practically said to you, he finds it such an inconvenience to have to spend a little extra time with her every now and again, then he doesn’t deserve to play a part in her life at all IMO.
You sound like a wonderful mother who is doing everything she can for her daughter. You are being strong for her, but you also sound like you need a bit of help yourself also. If money is tight, I presume there are other options out there for getting help for yourself.
You don’t deserve this carry on. Thinking of you.
Adventure