Originally Posted by
GettingBy 
Anger isnt a bad thing lizatola. Anger to me usually signifies that one of my boundaries is being violated. For me that means I need to focus on what I can do to fix the situation...
What I have learned through al-anon and here is that sitting around waiting for the offender to play nice has never gotten me anywhere.
How's your plan coming? You said you'd rather live in a car than with his drinking... What are YOU doing to put yourself in a more serene place?
Well, today I am researching new cars. I plan on trading in my Lexus for a smaller SUV and getting his name off the car(old or new, if I buy). He's leaving tonight for a trip and I will be making copies of all our important documents while he's gone. Birth certs, auto titles, loan stuff, financial documents, etc. Also, I am planning on calling a lawyer tomorrow, as well. Oh, and maybe I'll make that counseling appointment since I promised I would do that for 'US'.