OMG: it gets worse. Almost comical but I'm fuming right now.
I wanted to clarify to him why he didn't get any last night because he acting like the victim again. I told him that the things he said certainly don't attract me to him and nothing he said made me feel any closer to him.
He retaliated by saying that a Christian woman shouldn't withhold sex from her husband so that gave him the right to look at porn and get himself off, LOL! Honestly, it's insanity. He kept making it all about sex, when really our main issue is the drinking, the denial, the lying, minimizing, etc. Oh yeah, and that's why men have affairs, too, because their wives are frigid. When I tried to explain again that his attitude isn't sex appealing he turned on me and said, "Well, YOU won't let me masturbate." ROFLOL! What the??? I don't think this subject has ever come up in conversation with him EVER before, I could care less if he gets himself off every dang night. Go for it.
So, he also justified his rapist comments by saying it's the truth because I'm a rape victim. He said if he can't talk honestly about how he feels then we shouldn't have anymore conversations. FINE WITH ME! UGH!